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    Ness Cooper

    Ness Cooper

    Ness Cooper is internationally recognized as a leading expert in sex and relationships and has trained with the Kinsey Institute for human sexuality. She is a sexpert and writer for Marie Claire, and is a published author not just in news and magazines, but in books and academia, too.

    Latest articles by Ness Cooper

    Macro of red phone and woman's mouth; white background; how to have phone sex

    How to have phone sex: the ultimate guide to dialed-up dirty talk

    Not sure how to have phone sex? These steamy tips and techniques will turn your smartphone into a hotline

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      5 of the most common sexual fantasies—and how to make those frisky dreams come true

      Everybody's got sexual fantasies—here's what they mean and how to make them happen IRL

      By Ness Cooper Published 5 August 22

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      Aftercare: how to make sure your partner is A-okay after sex

      Sure, you know all about foreplay but what about aftercare? Yes, what happens after that big O is just as important

      By Ness Cooper Published 4 August 22

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      How to talk dirty with confidence and without cringe

      Learning how to talk dirty can really up your bedroom game—here's how to master it without feeling awkward AF

      By Ness Cooper Published 3 August 22

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