How to declutter your bedroom responsibly and have an eco-friendly clearout

Experts share their top tips on how to declutter sustainably to minimize the pressure on your local community and the planet

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Few things beat the sense of calm that follows a good clear out, and January inspires many of us to do so. But now that we're more aware of the impact our collective consumption has on the environment, it's important we wise up on how to declutter as sustainably as possible.

Marie Kondo's Netflix series encouraged millions of people around the world to reassess their wardrobes, declutter their kitchens, and streamline their beauty collections, bidding farewell to items that did not "spark joy". And that in itself isn't a bad thing—but the great clear out era left many charities inundated with often unusable items. 

So, how do you have a conscious clear out? Can you cut your closet down to a capsule wardrobe without generating unnecessary waste? With a little extra effort, the answer is a clear "yes". To get some failsafe tips on how to declutter more responsibly, e spoke to some fashion and beauty experts, to help you start 2023 with a clear mind (and home).

Meet the experts on decluttering

  • Dr Gracie McLaven (opens in new tab) is a clinical psychologist and Founder of Brain · Body · Wealth (opens in new tab) who advised My Imperfect Life on some of the ways that clutter can affect your mental health.
  • Lauren Cunningham (opens in new tab) is a celebrity stylist who has worked on magazine shoots, brand campaigns, and award ceremonies. In this piece she's shared tips on de-cluttering your closet. 
  • Ellis Ranson (opens in new tab) is a celebrity stylist who also gave insight into streamlining your closet. 
  • Emma Harrod is a professional organizer and founder of EH Lifestyling (opens in new tab), who has shared her expertise in de-cluttering. 
  • Chloe Wise is a beauty PR professional and shares skin tips and her experience with acne at @skin.ting (opens in new tab), advising My Imperfect Life readers on decluttering beauty products.
  •  Stephanie Harrison (opens in new tab) is an author and self-empowerment coach who has shared some of the positive mental benefits of finding a good home for your unwanted items. 

How to declutter your bedroom: your step-by-step guide

Before you start decluttering it's important to make sure you’re in the right headspace to do so. If you’re struggling to let go of any belongings, but know you need to, think about the bigger picture. Reframe the activity in your mind and focus on what you’ll gain from letting go of the clutter and finding it a new home, rather than what you're giving away.

“Clutter can cause sensory overload, resulting in us feeling overwhelmed and irritable,” says Dr. Gracie McLaven, clinical psychologist and founder of Brain · Body · Wealth. “By decluttering, we can gain a sense of empowerment, and feel calmer, happier, and in control.”

Key decluttering tips

  1. Take note of how often you wear your clothes—when was the last time, really?
  2. Create a system, e.g. by type or color, and put surplus items to one side
  3. Confirm you're donating to orgs that are actually in need of clothes, or sell them
  4. Research clothing recycling services—this is especially useful for underwear
  5. Check expiry dates of beauty products, give to family and friends or charity (if unopened)
  6. Take before and after photos to motivate yourself
  7. Tackle it section by section

Below are the key steps our experts have shared to help you declutter your fashion and beauty buys at home.

How to get rid of clothes sustainably

1. Take stock of your closet

First have a wardrobe clearout. Your closet is a great place to start when it comes to de-cluttering, but it's important to remember that the most sustainable fashion items are the ones you already own. Celebrity stylist Ellis Ranson notes: "fashion changes quickly so I ensure my clients have a strong staple wardrobe to help them transition through the seasons without ever feeling overwhelmed."

Look at everything you have as you go through, piece by piece. Instead of immediately purging, reconsider pieces and see if mixing up how you style them breathes in a new lease of life—perhaps one could be repurposed and given as an eco-friendly birthday gift? Focus your attention on items in season at the time, as they’ll be fresh in your mind and it’ll make it easier to separate out castoffs that need a new home. 

These tips aren’t limited to clearing out your closet; the same principles apply to the rest of the home, from your bookshelves to your spice rack – although, sadly, the resale market for unopened cayenne pepper isn’t quite as lucrative as fashion's. But by really examining and reviewing what you use and what's neglected, you can refine your life and remove unwanted clutter from pretty much any aspect.

2. Assess how regularly you wear each item in your closet

Another tactic is to go through everything in your closet, piece by piece, and think about how often you wear and enjoy each item of clothing. This will help you decide which pieces you won't miss or can live without. It's important to be honest with yourself, but it's easy to convince yourself that you wear some items more often than you actually do.

If you can't decide right away, a good visual tool is to turn all of the hooks on your hangers so that they are facing the same direction on the rail. Once you’ve worn something, turn its hanger in the opposite direction. This will help you to keep track of what you’ve worn and what you’ve neglected—and work out which items could be sold or rehomed. By noting what you wear regularly and what you probably don’t need, you’ll also be able to make smarter shopping decisions in future, for more sustainable living.

3. Put a system in place

Having a system, such as separating your clothes into a summer and winter capsule wardrobe, for example, not only helps you keep on top of your items but also helps you to live more sustainably in the future. 

Professional organizer Emma Harrod is a firm believer in color coding. "Creating blocks of color in your closet is both pleasing to the eye and functional," she explains. "It’s important to organize space accordingly so you can find any item easily when you want it. This also helps to coordinate your outfits—and realize you don’t need yet another white T-shirt!”

Emma also recommends grouping together different "types" of clothing. "Then, within each of these groups, initiate your color block. You will be able to clearly see the entire contents of your closet and gain a new perspective on how to style something, which in turn will help you fight off the urge for another unnecessary shopping spree.”

4. Ensure donated clothes go to the right place

Ensuring your clothes go to the right place, depending on the condition they're in, is super important so that they don't put unnecessary pressure on local services. The best ways to make sure your culled clothes don’t end up in landfill is to sell them, give them to a loved one, or participate in a clothing swap. You can also donate to a charity, but for this option, check ahead to see what the charity needs before you drop items off, so as not to add to an excess, and make sure they're in good enough condition to be resold and worn by someone else. 

Upcycling is another option, as your unwanted items could still benefit you. Old T-shirts could become a patchwork quilt, ill-fitting jeans could be transformed into a pair of denim shorts, and old sweaters and socks can even be cut up to use as dishcloths.

Very worn items still serve a purpose, as some clothing banks and charities have partnered with recyclers to repurpose fabrics. Once you've cut down to your most needed and loved, as well as a work capsule wardrobe, ensuring your unwanted items find a good home will also give you a mood boost. To help you get started, below we've listed some of the best places to recycle your clothes in the US and the UK.

🇺🇸Where to get rid of clothes in the US

  • American Textile Recycling Service (opens in new tab): all donations are tax deductible
  • Blue Jeans Go Green (opens in new tab): donate your denim
  • Earth911 (opens in new tab): enter your zip code to find out more about the services in your area
  • Goodwill (opens in new tab): the revenue generated from new and lightly-used items provides employment training and job placement services in your local community
  • RecycleNow (opens in new tab): search your zip code for local services
  • Salvation Army (opens in new tab): schedule a free pick-up 
  • Simple Recycling (opens in new tab): also offers free home pick-ups for clothing and shoes

🇬🇧Where to get rid of clothes in the UK

  • By Rotation (opens in new tab): enables you to rent out designer items
  • Collect My Clothes (opens in new tab): contactless collection, nationwide
  • Depop (opens in new tab): another easy site to turn your clothes into cash
  • eBay (opens in new tab): sell your unwanted clothes online
  • HURR (opens in new tab): another designer rental service, though renters can make an offer to buy some items
  • Local textile recycling: check your local council's web page to find your nearest textile banks.
  • RecycleNow (opens in new tab): search your postcode code for local services
  • Traid (opens in new tab): turns waste clothes into resources
  • Terracycle (opens in new tab): recycle all your beauty packaging
  • Vinted (opens in new tab): unlike the above two, doesn't take a percentage of your sales
  • YourClothes (opens in new tab): swap, share, donate

How to get rid of underwear

Underwear is trickier to rehome or recycle because people don't tend to buy these items secondhand, while additional features like underwiring found in bras make them more complex than straight-up fabric recycling.

However, you can donate bras that are in good condition and certain services are in particular need of these items. Below are some need-to-know underwear recycling services available in both America and the UK. 

🇺🇸Where to get rid of underwear in the US

  • Donate Your Bras (opens in new tab): Support women globally with new, nearly new and "gently loved" bras
  • Free the Girls (opens in new tab): Empowering women who’ve overcome sex trafficking into bra-selling businesses
  • I Support the Girls (opens in new tab): Donations can be mailed
  • The Bra Recyclers (opens in new tab): Partnered with 100 non-profits globally

🇬🇧Where to get rid of underwear in the UK

  • Bravissimo (opens in new tab): Collects used bras and swimwear (by any brand!) for recycling, and donates to Coppafeel for every kilogram donated 
  • Fabscrap (opens in new tab): a one-stop textile reuse and recycling resource
  • I collect clothes (opens in new tab): support charities with your unwanted clothing
  • Smalls for All (opens in new tab): Global underwear recycling
  • Traid (opens in new tab): Textile collection charity

How to get rid of beauty products sustainably

Tackling your makeup bag and any beauty drawers also doesn't have to mean generating huge amounts of waste. "There’s no need to feel guilty and there are plenty of ways to do this sustainably," shares content creator and founder of SkinTing, Chloe Wise.

"First, be honest about what does and doesn’t work for you in terms of products. This will help you avoid holding on to products that will expire before you use them."

1. Note down expiry dates

Expiration dates are important as they indicate whether a product is still 1) safe to use and 2) effective. An open jar symbol with a number and the letter M inside indicates the number of months a product needs to be used within. An hourglass means the product lasts for less than 30 months, and indicates the best before end date.

Chloe also recommends labeling products with the date you open them so you know when it's time to toss it. "For those products that do go out of date, you can declutter and recycle the packaging—retailers like Boots (opens in new tab) now have in-store recycling points—or turn it into something new, for instance re-using moisturizer pots to store cotton buds." Regional recycling rules vary, so make sure you're separating packaging per local guidance.

2. Ask family and friends to finish opened products

Partially used beauty items are harder to recycle, but there are things you can do with products that don't work for you. "Any products that don’t work for me I’ll offer to friends and family as my first port of call," Chloe says. "This often gives loved ones the chance to try something they may not have been able to otherwise."

3. Donate or sell unopened items

If your products haven't been opened, they can be donated to local charities, shelters or food banks—or even be sold on sites like eBay and Depop like pre-loved fashion.

Doing the former can also have a positive impact on your local community. There are more needed supplies, of course, but an unused lipstick that's still in date and is donated may end up in the hands of someone who needs a confidence boost in times of need. Take cues from author and self-empowerment coach Stephanie Harrison. "Positive ripples evoked by a selfless act positively affect not just your own health and sense of pride and achievement, but your community's, too.” 

🇺🇸Where to get rid of beauty products in the US

  • Aveda recycle (opens in new tab): collects rigid plastic caps so they don’t end up in landfill or the ocean
  • Back to MAC (opens in new tab): exchange six empty MAC containers for a whole new product
  • Kiehl's rewards (opens in new tab): allows you to earn points by returning empties to store
  • Terracycle (opens in new tab) : has partnered with Garnier to recycle skincare and haircare packaging

🇬🇧Where to get rid of beauty products in the UK

  • Beautycycle (opens in new tab): powered by John Lewis
  • Beauty Banks (opens in new tab): doorway collections supporting local communities and refugees
  • Boots (opens in new tab): earn Advantage Card points by dropping off your empties
  • The Hygenie Bank (opens in new tab): find your local drop-off point
  • Toiletries Amnesty (opens in new tab)takes unopened toiletries and distributes them among those who need them most

Sarah-Rose Harrison is a London-based celebrity stylist and Contributing Fashion Editor at Marie Claire UK. 

No day is ever quite the same for her but the one constant is that she’s always looking for the next big thing and the newest style. 

From ways to be more sustainable to up-and-coming brands, she’s got you covered.