Is the dildo really dead? Not according to sexperts.
Clitoral stimulators have caused a buzz as of late thanks to their O-worthy results, while hands-free vibrators have become a fan-favorite for their convenience. However, old-school dildos are still in demand. In fact, the pros say that the O.G. sex toy has seen a resurgence and a 50% spike in sales over the past six months.
"People are investing more than ever in their self-pleasure as part of their sexual wellness," Cameron Long-Tel, a sexologist and brand ambassador for LELO, tells LOOKFANTASTIC exclusively. "The average number of sex toys owned by a person is three, so having a diverse range of toys in your collection can help maximize your experience."
But why has the toy's performance been in question? And why should we keep a space for it in our nightstand drawers if there are more high-tech gadgets on the market? Allow Long-Tel to give you the scoop.
Sexperts make the case for dildos
Different types of vibrators have taken over, and with so many options to choose from, this basic selection might seem just that.
"Whilst you can orgasm from a dildo, more than 75% of women actually report that they do not orgasm from penetration," Long-Tel says. "Most women climax from stimulating their clitoris, hence the popularity of vibrators."
If that's the case—and if shoppers seem to favor a different experience—why hang onto the dildo? Why not Marie Kondo your sex toy collection?
"A dildo gives an alternative experience for people to enjoy, compared to a vibrator, so you can alter your experience to fit your mood," Long-Tel adds. "More couples are also using toys in the bedroom, and dildos are a great option to try together if you both feel comfortable."
(Once you have consent, be sure to have a look at the best sex toys for couples, too.)
Whether you're coupled up or exploring sensations solo, the oldie-but-goodie pleasure plaything has its benefits.
"Using a dildo as an explorative tool on your erogenous zones is a great way to find out what feels good, and if you can orgasm from penetration," Long-Tel adds.
What is the future of dildos?
If you ask Long-Tel, we can expect to see a few changes here and there as far as the next phase of sex toys.
"Looking forward to the future of dildos, I think we’ll be moving further away from the stereotypical, veiny, girthy penises, and instead be focusing more on the pleasure they give, working more like G-spot vibrators," she says. "G-spot vibrators are designed specifically for internal stimulation of the infamous G-spot characterized by their curved or bulbous head."
They are both designed for penetration, but G-spot vibrators don't often go as deep as a traditional dildo, so perhaps there will be a marriage between the two. Time will tell!
Until the next sensation is created, have a look at our list of the best sex toys on shelves right now. And while you're at it, here's what experts say about how often to clean sex toys. Regardless of what you opt for, it can use a lil' scrub-a-dub-dub!
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